4 photos that you need to use
Lets face it there are some really bad photos in online dating profiles. The selfie has taken over and it really doesn't matter if you are in the bathroom that shows toothpaste on the mirror. STOP! You are embarrassing yourself. Once you have the right photos in place then you are good to go but don't be lazy. Get a friend to take these pics for you. Use an iPhone or similar device. You can make ordinary photos look great with special effects like black and white, glossy, etc. No professional head shots please. You don't want to look like you are trying to hard. Here are the 4 photos you need to use at all times.
1. A photo of you and your dog. If you don't have a dog thats fine. Use a photo of you and your grandmother or Aunt or some family member. This stirs real emotion in her that you are capable of long term family values.
2. Sporting Event, Wedding, or Activity. You need to be shown having fun. A pro football game with your jersey, a baseball game, basketball, you get the picture. You need her to visualize being at the game with you and how awesome it would be.
3. Pack leader photo. Mystery always said that a woman is looking for a leader of men. Well in online dating you need to show a photo of you on stage, speaking in front of people, you in an important meeting, or leading a discussion amongst your friends at a cool tavern. Either way this is a must.
4. The dreaded selfie pic. This is where the selfie pic comes into play. You should use one selfie and make it a good one. If you have a cool crib with a view make sure the view is in it. No bathroom pics, bedroom pics, you with your shirt off pics. You must also label the pic "the dreaded selfie". This way you are making fun of it and not taking it to seriously. You only get one so make it count.
WHAT NOT TO POST
You should never post pictures with your shirt off. If you are buff then the only picture allowed is you playing a sport and a picture was taken of you playing said sport. You posing with your shirt off is suicide. My rule is if you can't do it in a bar you shouldn't do it online. So unless you think you can walk into a bar and take your shirt off and sit there all night... then don't do it. Don't post more then 4 pictures unless you have too. The reason people post 10 pictures is because they are insecure or they know deep down the pictures are garbage and they hope the woman will just accept it. She won't. She will know that you don't have good pictures and move right along. 4 great pictures that stir emotion is way better then 10 selfies. And for god sakes, do not post pictures that are more then 6 months old maybe a year. This is suicide. Why post a picture from 4 years ago and then worry about the girl noticing when you meet her? Be smart. Final rule.... no pics of you with strippers, bartenders, coked up models, etc. This might be social proof in a bar but online... women HATE IT. It stirs bad emotions. You want the good emotions.
PHOTOS BELOW
Below are photos that are really good and should be duplicated if you can. These are photos that women really respond too. Emotional ping ponging through these types of photos is what you want. You need to get her revved up with attraction. This doesn't have anything to do with what you look like but how you live your life.
1. A photo of you and your dog. If you don't have a dog thats fine. Use a photo of you and your grandmother or Aunt or some family member. This stirs real emotion in her that you are capable of long term family values.
2. Sporting Event, Wedding, or Activity. You need to be shown having fun. A pro football game with your jersey, a baseball game, basketball, you get the picture. You need her to visualize being at the game with you and how awesome it would be.
3. Pack leader photo. Mystery always said that a woman is looking for a leader of men. Well in online dating you need to show a photo of you on stage, speaking in front of people, you in an important meeting, or leading a discussion amongst your friends at a cool tavern. Either way this is a must.
4. The dreaded selfie pic. This is where the selfie pic comes into play. You should use one selfie and make it a good one. If you have a cool crib with a view make sure the view is in it. No bathroom pics, bedroom pics, you with your shirt off pics. You must also label the pic "the dreaded selfie". This way you are making fun of it and not taking it to seriously. You only get one so make it count.
WHAT NOT TO POST
You should never post pictures with your shirt off. If you are buff then the only picture allowed is you playing a sport and a picture was taken of you playing said sport. You posing with your shirt off is suicide. My rule is if you can't do it in a bar you shouldn't do it online. So unless you think you can walk into a bar and take your shirt off and sit there all night... then don't do it. Don't post more then 4 pictures unless you have too. The reason people post 10 pictures is because they are insecure or they know deep down the pictures are garbage and they hope the woman will just accept it. She won't. She will know that you don't have good pictures and move right along. 4 great pictures that stir emotion is way better then 10 selfies. And for god sakes, do not post pictures that are more then 6 months old maybe a year. This is suicide. Why post a picture from 4 years ago and then worry about the girl noticing when you meet her? Be smart. Final rule.... no pics of you with strippers, bartenders, coked up models, etc. This might be social proof in a bar but online... women HATE IT. It stirs bad emotions. You want the good emotions.
PHOTOS BELOW
Below are photos that are really good and should be duplicated if you can. These are photos that women really respond too. Emotional ping ponging through these types of photos is what you want. You need to get her revved up with attraction. This doesn't have anything to do with what you look like but how you live your life.
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